Chicory 菊苣 " unconditional love "

渴求注意力，對所愛的人過份需索、干擾他人生活。有意或無意識的控制欲，令家人或朋友感到窒息。在某些情況下，出現自私的操控或感情勒索。

負面狀態：

窒息關係、佔有欲、自私、操控

正面狀態：

安全、無私、無條件的愛

Used for an aching need for attention. This craving can make one demanding of loved ones or interfering in the lives others. One may also be overly 'smothering' to members of one's family and friends as a way of exerting (often ineffective) control over the love demanded. In some instances one may resort to selfish manipulation or emotional blackmail. 

Negative emotion causing unhappiness:
Smothering / Possessive / Selfish / Clingy
​Positive emotion encouraged by the Essence:
Secure / Selfless / Unconditional love