Heather 石楠 " Comforted "

過度關注自己的問題。需要石楠的人通常無法理解他人的麻煩（這將使他們能夠正確看待事情），並且可能經常公開和反覆傾訴他們的擔憂，為任何願意傾聽的人帶來負擔，而由此產生的拒絕，會讓他們進一步感到孤立、孤獨或被誤解。

負面狀態：

需索的/苛求的/固執的/過度照顧

正面狀態：

被安慰/善於反應/慈愛/平衡

Used for being overly focussed on ones' own problems. People who need Heather are often unable to appreciate the troubles of others (which would enable them to put things into perspective) and may burden 'anyone who will listen' by revealing their worries openly and repeatedly. Any resulting rejection can make them feel a sense of isolation, loneliness or of being misunderstood. 

Negative emotion causing unhappiness:

Needy / Demanding / Fixated / Over-mothering

Positive emotion encouraged by the Essence:

Comforted / Responsive / Affectionate / Balanced